Loving Groups

Building conscious loving relationships, family, and community!







Jim Clarke

is a Group Host and Life Coach in the teaching, practice and application of the life-improving principles of Unconditional Love. Jim spent much of his adult life as a television meteorologist, seemingly living the American Dream, but the tension and anxiety of his personal life was growing out of control. In the span of 5 years, he manifested two failed marriages and the loss of almost all his worldly possessions.  For several years, he blamed his wives and the world, and was miserable. Finally, he realized that the one common denominator in all his relationships was himself, and began looking for answers.  He found those answers quite by accident when he attended an event with Sharon Winningham as a guest speaker. Sharon is the Community Leader of the Loving-Groups of Arizona. Sharon told her story of failed relationships and desperate situations, until she discovered the principles of unconditional love, that turned her life from a downward spiral to an upwards one. Jim was so intrigued by the practical application and healing power of unconditional love, that he began studying everything he could about it. In 2014, Jim moved from the Midwest to Phoenix, Arizona, to learn from and participate in the Loving-Groups, where he has trained to be a group host and a Life Coach in the practice of unconditional love. The principles of unconditional love are ancient, but rarely have the principles been available in such a simple, applicable and life-healing way. Jim is dedicated to bringing more of the life-saving practices of unconditional love and Loving-Groups to individuals and communities around the globe, and particularly to his home town of St. Louis, Missouri.

Jim Clarke 618-477-1983

St. Louis, MO


Tom Harry has been changing lives with the principles of Unconditional Love for the past 5 years. In 1987, he earned a Bachelor's degree in Psychology at the University of New Orleans. Not satisfied with what he learned there, he continued studying and experimenting with a variety of psychological theories and spiritual practices. Finally, in 2011, he was introduced to the principles of Unconditional Love – principles far simpler, yet far more powerful and effective than everything else he'd studied and practiced. Immediately he began successfully applying the principles in his own life. Very soon after he began helping others and has continued to do so ever since, facilitating weekly groups and working with people individually. As host of the Saturday morning group in the Phoenix Loving Groups community, he is known for his patience, humor, insight, intuition, and making everyone feel safe and cared for. He is available for presentations, teaching, facilitating groups, interventions, and private coaching in person and via telephone and Skype.  

Tom Harry 480-349-6681

Boulder, CO

Our Coaches and Coaches in Training

We believe loving others is the greatest joy in the world! 

Many of our "Loving Groups Coaches in Training" have specialized niches and have been coaching and doing workshops for a long time.

CHLC's What's that?


In Loving Groups:

Certified Host/Life Coaches are in on-going training with Sharon to be a life coach and may have done some life coaching on their own. They are not certified ULLC's yet.


Tom Harry

Suzanne Ecker

Jim Clarke

Frankie Pepper


As each are in training it does not mean they are taking clients already. Some are. You must inquire with them directly. Some are in training just for the experience of expanding their knowledge. Some are actively coaching. The ones listed here have their own specialties and have been actively coaching although still learning to be a ULLC.


ULLC Unconditional Loving Life Coach


Sharon Winningham, ULLC

Davina Mar 
Graduate-ULLC

As a Religious Science Practitioner, 
I am here to assist.
Namaste'
I honor the place in you, in which the Universe dwells.
I honor the place in you, which is of Love, of Light, of Truth, and of Peace.  When you are in that place in you and I am in that place in me, we are One.

Davina's Meetup
Davina Mar  808-938-8452

Affirmative Prayer for Clarity and Peace

In this moment I recognize there is One Presence, One Power, which I choose to call Divine Love, Source, Great Spirit, Mother/Father/God. I am one with the One and within me are all Its gifts, including Love, Peace, Joy, Health, and Abundance. I know that I am loved unconditionally by the Creator and that clarity in all situations is mine now, all I need do is open up to it. I move forward this day in ease and grace, for I am guided and directed with each breath and every step I take. The blessings in my life are infinite and forever expanding, and I am grateful. I let my word go into the Universe with faith knowing It knows what, when, and how to manifest that which is for my highest good. And So It Is.

Davina Mar, RScP












Suzanne Ecker 


About Suzanne:  I grew up in rural upstate New York, have held many different jobs, traveled a bit and ended up in Arizona studying art, then teaching ESL in the public schools.  I have been on a purposeful spiritual path since 1990 learning from a Siddha guru.  Since 2011, I have been a student of Dr. and Master Zhi Gang Sha*, my beloved spiritual father, studying Soul Healing and Soul Communication.  Assisting you on your soul journey may consist of discussions about karma, reincarnation, and the soul, although  you need not believe in them to participate and receive benefits.


In 2011, I began studying Real Love principals set forth by Dr. Greg Baer, helping people to identify their unproductive behaviors that preclude them from feeling loved unconditionally and from being able to offer unconditional love.  I currently have an involvement in the Loving Groups community in Phoenix led by Sharon Winningham, as a group host and personal coach.

Suzanne Ecker 480-335-1023

Tempe, AZ 

Why Us?

We have committed our lives to helping others.  


For many people, the key missing ingredient to their lives is the simple experience of unconditional love. Beyond our material possessions, families, relationships, and careers, each of us quietly seeks the feeling and embodiment of love.

As we move about in our daily routines, faced with ever-increasing issues of stress and challenge, fear and doubt, a soft inner voice is speaking to us. This is the voice of deeper truth and reason.

There is another way, another path. It is a path paved with the conscious use of love. It is going beyond personal love into the realm of unconditional love. It is the recognition that all life deserves love regardless of its appearance or actions. All life is sacred despite any illusion to the contrary.

It is with this recognition that we can affect amazing change in our lives, both personal and global. In fact, right this moment you are affecting life just by your current attitudes, perspectives, thoughts, and feelings. What if you decided to view life with love?

Let's make love a choice and let's make it popular by our word, deed and action. Begin with yourself by loving yourself and then share it with everyone and everything around you. Sound simple? It is.

Love requires no special talent, skill or knowledge. It is held within each of us every moment. We need only realize it is ever present and available to invoke its gift. When we choose love, we receive and share in the beauty of life itself. Sometimes we just need a little help from our friends to get there.